Having experience in anything can be a handy and precious tool. The more experience you have, the more your skills sharpen typically. Bottoming is no exception. Some individuals believe to bottom well, you have to be a power-bottom, which is not actually the case. With the tips I’ve developed when the meat is huge, anyone can maximise the enjoyment of a huge dick experience.
1. Cleansing Ritual
Before you can go all out, you want to start with the most crucial step of all: douching. After selecting your “go-to” device, allow yourself the proper time to prepare. I repeat, allow time to cleanse. This is very important, in general, when bottoming, but especially when dealing with larger dick sizes. You can almost be certain your second hole will be receiving a visitor. After douching, complete any other grooming that may be needed, such as manscaping, before you hit the shower.
While in the shower, spread those cheeks and get in all the cracks and crevices. Don’t forget to wash thoroughly around the cheeks and scrotum as well. There’s no sense in wasting time cleansing your love tunnel if you aren’t going to refresh it properly. While some men do like a little “man-musk,” I’m going to advise that you prefer a more “manly aroma” to have that conversation prior. Generally speaking, you do not want to show up with an odour.
Foreplay can be an excellent catalyst for receiving dick of any size, but particularly larger ones. Not only does it establish a connection between both parties, but it also ensures that you aren’t being driven directly to Pound Town at light speed. When it comes to taking above-average dick, you’ll want him to eat your bakery as long as possible.
If you’re fortunate, you’ll have someone who certainly sees that as no problem. In addition to oral, you could also incorporate some adult toys such as a dildo to expand the hole if needed. Get as creative or freaky as you both desire. The limits are yours to set. Just be sure to spend ample time on foreplay.
3. Lube is Your Best Friend
Lube is usually never a bad idea, but you certainly want it for occasions when the meat is huge. What lubricant is the best will ultimately be a personal preference. However, you want to keep in mind one crucial thing when selecting your lubricant of choice: only silicone and water-based lubricants are safe to use with condoms.
Silicone lubricants have been said to create a more pleasurable anal experience than water-based versions. However, oil-based (i.e. coconut oil) lubricants should not be used with condoms.
My favourite lubricant, Gun Oil, comes in both a silicone and water-based formulation. I have found this lubricant greatly minimises unwanted friction, maximises comfort, and has a nice viscosity that stays slick longer. I would stay away from warming lubricants in the bum area, though. Don’t be my younger self. You’ll thank me later.
4. Poppers: To Use or Not To Use
After 1988, a class of chemical compounds known as amyl nitrates stopped being produced. It was replaced with a similar chemical compound, alkyl nitrate. Alkyl nitrates can be inhaled to help the relaxation of involuntary smooth muscles. Those muscles can be found in your throat and anal sphincter.
This is how poppers can cause a tight hole to open in a matter of seconds. Individuals should be aware that using poppers with Phosphodiesterase inhibitors, type 5 (PDE5), such as Viagra, Levitra, or Cialis, can cause dangerous sharp drops in blood pressure levels, which can lead to loss of consciousness or death. This is because such inhibitors are also vasodilators, which open your blood vessels.
While pleasure, fun, and comfort are desirable, try to keep your overall safety and health in mind. Avoid getting the liquid on your nose, as it can cause burns or spilling it in your nose while trying to inhale. I recommend holding the bottle yourself to help avoid this. If it does happen, you can try flushing with water; my research suggests that’s what others have done in this situation. However, seek medical attention if the symptoms become too unbearable. Better safe than sorry. Since variations exist between popper-friendly people and those who are not, I would also advise having this conversation with your sexual partner to avoid a possibly awkward moment.
5. Putting It All Together
As a bottom, you don’t have some unspoken duty to grunt your way through just to prove how much of a champ or “good bottom” you are as if you’re winning an Olympic Gold medal.
Your health and safety should always come first. Anal fissures and rectal prolapse are actual occurrences. Be sure to communicate when you may want more lube, feel any discomfort, or want to try a different position. Being verbal during sex can be a major turn-on, so don’t be afraid to speak up. After all, you should be experiencing pleasure, too.
If bleeding occurs, stop. Do not keep going. Remember, the experience should be enjoyable for you both, and we don’t want to cause possible further damage. Now that you know how to service any huge pole, go out and enjoy your huge dick experience. You deserve it.
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